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Never talk badly to or about her. You chose her—live up to that choice.

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There is some truth to that. Every relationship requires each person to consciously choose to give something up at times.

Just read that again. That sounds horrible. Keyword here: This is the person you chose. It will only lookjng and make you both miserable. Have the courage to be who you are, and most importantly, let your partner be who they are. Those are the two people who fell in love with each other in the first place.

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But how does one do this? Be sure you have a life of your own, otherwise it is harder to have a life together.

What do I mean? Have your own interests, your own friends, your own support network, and your own hobbies.

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Overlap where you can, but not being identical should give you something to talk about and expose one another to. Among the emails, one of the most popular themes was the importance of creating space and separation from one another.

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In fact, at times, it will be downright soul-destroying. The relationship is a living, breathing thing. Much like the body and muscles, it lokoing get stronger without stress and challenge.

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Marridd Gottman is a hot-shit psychologist and researcher who has spent over 30 years analyzing married couples and looking for keys to why they stick together and why they break up. What Gottman does is he gets married couples in a room, puts some cameras on them, and then he asks them to have a fight.

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The reader emails back this up as well. But all of this takes for granted another important point: Be willing to have the fights.

Say the ugly things and get it all out in the open. It's not all about big romantic gestures. For example, my toilet paper and paper towels have been magically refilled since a month into dating my husband.

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